I really would love to see the Horace Pippin exhibit at the Brandywine River Museum. I am in love with his floral paintings.
Are you watching The Last Man on Earth? We really enjoyed the first episode.
You can see it on Fox, Sunday nights at 9:30
We have been really blessed by friends and family after Elliott’s birth. New parenthood is a time of intense emotions, of love and sleep deprivation. We are pretty good as a culture at providing for the physical needs of a new baby by showering them with clothes and cribs, but the needs of new parents are often overlooked. I wanted to share some of the gifts that have been most helpful for us in hopes that they can be blessings passed along to someone else.
- MEAL TRAIN: We haven’t made a single meal all month. Our friend Karen organized a meal train from my bridal shower list. Each of the ladies signed up for a night to make our family a meal after Elliott arrived, then every other night for the month someone has brought us something delicious to eat. It has been AMAZING to not have to worry about what is for dinner or making frequent trips to the grocery store.
- MOM CARE SUPPLIES: Some of the best gifts came from other new Mom’s. They gave me things I didn’t even know that I needed. Things for lactation like Mothers Milk Tea and Lactation Cookies. Personal care items for post birth like New Mama Spray and Nipple Balm.
- HEALTHY SNACKS: There is very little time to fix anything to eat with a newborn, so grab and go items are essential. My favorites have been yogurt, fruit, granola bars, cheese sticks, trail mix, and hummus. A care package of these for a new mom would be VERY appreciated.
- NETFLIX: A netflix subscription has been great since new moms spend a lot of time breast feeding on the couch.
- CHORES: Doing a load of laundry or the dishes for a new Mom is an invaluable gift. Or you could purchase a gift card for a housecleaning service if you do not live in the area.
- NO THANK YOUS: Take the pressure off new Mom’s by assuring that your gift requires no thank you note, or that you understand that the thoughtful e-mail you sent requires no speedy reply.
I’ve been reading a lot about the Danish idea of Hygge. It’s a word that roughly translated means “cozy” but encompasses untranslatable feelings of warmth, comfort, and companionship. Hygge is one of the reasons that despite having long cold winters Danes are still ranked among the happiest people on earth. I am not a big fan of winter, after the lights of the holidays go out I usually get a long bout of seasonal affective disorder. Here are some of my hygge inspired coping mechanisms I plan on employing.
- LIGHT: Lots of aromatherapy candles spread throughout the house in energizing scents.
- BLANKETS: big cozy ones in big piles
- COMFORT FOOD: Bowls of Soup, cups of tea, oatmeal, roast chicken
- FRIENDS: I think my winter needs more laughter. A couple weeks ago we went to a neighbors house, I brought cookies and tea. We sat in front of their wood stove and chatted for hours. It definitely brightened my dreary day.
- COZY SHOWS: Thank the Lord that we will have Downton Abbey to look forward to January 4th. (Let me know if you have any other recommendations!)
- WARM CLOTHES: The Danes also say, “there’s no bad weather, just bad clothing”. I think that bundling up and getting whatever sunshine I can would be enormously helpful for my well being.
Do you have any Winter coping strategies?
I was looking over my goals for 2014 and laughing. This year has been an eventful one, but not because I accomplished even half of the things on my list. I have been reminded over and over that as much as I want to plan, sometimes we are called to give in and be along for the ride.
Here is a snapshot of our roller coaster.
It has been amazing to watch these events unfold and see how we have been provided for. We are so thankful that we had an emergency fund in place and very few expenses when Jason got laid off. It made that initial “oh shit” feeling momentary. It also pushed us outside of our comfort zones to go and get some really interesting freelance gigs that we would have been really intimidated by other wise.
And hooray for Baby Harmon!
Other notable highlights
- I had a lovely exhibit and interview with The Table at Brandywine.
- MUSEUMS VISITED: Falling Water, Phipps Conservatory, US Botanic Garden, American History Museum, Lincoln Memorial, National Gallery of Art, Moog Factory
- BEST MEALS: Ethiopian food from Dukem, Egg and procioutto brunch at Lupo Verde, Breakfast from Biscuit Head, Some crazy pork dish from Salsas
- FAVORITE BOOK: The Goldfinch
- FAVORITE MOVIE: Boyhood
- Lilacs from the best neighbors.
- This strawberry rhubarb crumble recipe.
- The Anthony Bourdain: Parts Unkown episode with Rene Redzepi. (Now on Netflix)
- The Detroit Lawn mower gang that maintains the failing city’s parks.
- Alone in the Wilderness is on PBS all the time and it is the most relaxing documentary ever created.
Urban living can be taxing especially in the Summer. It’s hot and smelly, and crime rates go up. I dream of having a Philly version of a Dacha. Dacha’s are country houses outside the cities of Russia where people escape to during the warmer months. They are traditionally pretty rustic with no plumbing or electricity and on less than .15 acres of land. But they are places where the working class are able to escape to the country, to grow their own food, and enjoy nature.
Who’s with me? Plot of land just off the regional rail line?